This morning was a little hectic and I was busy helping Cameron upstairs (teething troubles most likely --and yes, we've gone back to sleepless nights :))
Anyway, I came downstairs a little nervous to see what Luke had quietly been up to for the 30 minutes or so that I had been ignoring him. To my surprise, I discovered this:
My little boy did a jigsaw puzzle all on his own! 2 jigsaw puzzles to be exact! At first I thought that maybe we just forgot to take them apart from yesterday when we worked on it together...but no, I distinctly remember seeing the pieces scattered all over the floor earlier this morning (which is why there are a few pieces missing...they were under the couch).
Now I'm not trying to advertise the fact that clearly my son is BRILLIANT :) hehe ...because really he is just as bright as most kids I know his age. My main point is that I AM A TERRIBLE PARENT! Do you know how many times I have seen Luke working on a puzzle and I jump in to "help" him? Just about every time. I see him trying to put the wrong pieces together or trying to put a corner piece in the middle and I immediately think that he is going to get frustrated and I should come to the rescue. But really, Luke has probably been thinking, "Geez Mom, give me a little space. I can figure it out on my own."
I learned an important lesson today. I need to let Luke struggle more and do more things on his own. Luckily, this is naturally the byproduct of having a second baby because I don't have time to be by Luke's side helping him 24/7. In fact, I thought I was pretty good at letting him figure things out on his own but clearly I am not.
Patience Lauren! He may not do things as quickly as you want or the way you think it should be done, but he's figuring things out. And you shouldn't insist on constantly pulling up the daisies to see how the roots are doing. (i still remember that phrase from this Neal A. Maxwell talk ...it took me awhile to understand what he was saying at the time but I still think of it often).
However, though I may not have clear grasp of what Luke is capable or incapable of doing.... he clearly cannot look at the camera and smile when I ask him to:












































