A few people were confused about the boys' costumes. They couldn't decide if Luke was a moose or a doctor or a moose doctor. Some thought Cam was a mouse. All I can say is that it has been a busy 3 weeks over here. We have been to Italy, Utah, Cleveland for a wedding, Indiana for a BYU game, AND I refinished the deck somewhere in between all those things. So moose-doctor and mouse-dog were the best we could do.
Afterwards, Cam went down for a nap and Luke and I had ourselves a little party. We cranked up the Halloween music on Pandora and carved the pumpkin. Luke dumped his candy out on the table and I just let him go to town. It was nice to give myself permission not to regulate for a day. Feeding children is sort of a stressful ordeal for me on a daily basis, so for at least today I decided to chill out.
As a quick aside, I will also mention that I have been a bit of a mean mom lately. I have just felt so frustrated by the things involving my kids that aren't going so great, that I stopped teaching and started telling (sometimes very loudly). I stopped enjoying and started surviving. But then I read this talk from General Conference last night and decided that my methods of tackling the problems of the moment were downright ineffective. So I'm trying to be a more loving Mom again. So far it has made a HUGE difference for everyone involved and our home feels like a much happier place. If I get lazy and start my mean mom tyrant act again, you make sure I re-read that talk. Thanks. Now moving on...
I told Luke that he should save some of his candy for later instead of eating it all in one day. He thought about it and a few minutes later he came up to me and showed me the inside of his pumpkin. He said, "Look Mom, I'm saving these for later!"
We originally weren't going to put any political signs in our yard. One, because we like to remain pretty neutral and independent when it comes to politics, and two, because we live in a VERY liberal town and I would like to make some friends first before they jump to any conclusions about who we are :). But, a neighbor found out we were LDS and came to my door (holding the Romney sign) and said, "I don't know your political persuasions but I just thought you might want one of these," with a little wink and glimmer in her eye. She was so nice (and we are voting for Mitt) so we decided to come out of our little conservative closet. Lets hope we didn't kill our social life :)
I was feeling a little homesick today for our old apartment complex. All the little kids would go trick-or-treating together and everyone was such good friends. It made me happy when a family here invited us (and others) to go trick-or-treating in their neighborhood. It was kind of like the good ole days in C-bus.
Happy Halloween!
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I loved that Luke saved candy for later. It cracked me up when I saw how much. I bet it's gone by tomorrow.
three comments from me today:
1- LOVE the moose-doctor/mouse-dog thing. Life is more than designing costumes that get worn once UNDER warm weather gear!
2- LOVE the 'saving this for later' candy! What a funny boy!
3- I have been struggling with 'mean mom' mode lately too. Gwen has been having obedience, hitting, and lying difficulties, as well as just being MEAN to Caroline. It makes me crazy when nothing I say seems to be making a bit of difference in her behavior. I regret when I lose my patience and start raising my voice. I'm going to read that talk right now....
I am from Columbus, Indiana and we call it C-bus too. LOL
Loved your insight on motherhood. You worded so perfectly:
I stopped teaching and started telling (sometimes very loudly). I stopped enjoying and started surviving.
I got into that rut as well sometimes. Thanks for the article link.
Ha ha! Loved all the pictures! Luke cracked me up with his 'saved' candy!! And they already look older! What?!!
Ha ha! Loved all the pictures! Luke cracked me up with his 'saved' candy!! And they already look older! What?!!
Ha ha! Loved all the pictures! Luke cracked me up with his 'saved' candy!! And they already look older! What?!!
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